When You Were Born in China is a moving photo-essay that provides a child's eye
look at Chinese adoptions, helping to explain some of the whys
and hows that have brought these children to their new
families.
With sensitive text and touching photography, When You
Were Born in China brings the whole process of Chinese
International Adoption to a personal scale. The book speaks
directly to the adopted child, assuring her that hers is a
special story, one that started in an ancient and amazing
country. The text then suggests that maybe the reader has a few
questions about her story, how she was born in China, who might
have known her then, and how she came to be adopted. It then
provides a brief overview of some of the factors that may have
contributed to her story, such as China's population control
policies, and the cultural desire to have a son. It goes on to
tell the story of what might have happened to the reader: life
in an orphanage or a foster home, perhaps, and then the formal
adoption process leading up to meeting her new mom or dad for
the first time, and finally the flight home.
This book will be invaluable to adoptive parents who are
looking for just the right words to help their child understand
some of the factors that brought them together. It sensitively
addresses the difficult issue of why birthparents felt they
could not care for their child, and it provides some context for
the whole process. The book will be enjoyed by school-agers and
adults, and can be read or paraphrased to younger children as an
excellent way to integrate these topics into their daily lives.
Chinese adoptions are by far the most active International
Adoption Programs, currently surpassing Korea and South America
is numbers of children placed. Thousands of Chinese children
needing families have been matched with families needing
children, and predictions are that the number of placements will
continue to increase over the coming years. Chinese-adoptive
parents are also very well organized, many belonging to local
chapters of Families with Children from China. On the Internet,
there are a number of Chinese-adoption Web sites, and a Mailing
List; there are also a great many newsletters.
There are many families who are awaiting their adoption
referrals who will be interested in this book as well, for the
insight it provides into the life of their soon-to-be child.
There are virtually no books like this available at this
time. When Yeong & Yeong Book Company published the similar
title When You Were Born in Korea, it was an immediate
success, as it met a need for Korean-adoptive parents to fill in
that part of their child's story. Over 10,000 copies of that
book have been sold.
At the time of writing this book, Sara Dorow was an
International Adoption Specialist for a major adoption agency.
She is fluent in Chinese and Korean, and has a special focus on
matching Special Needs children with families. Ms. Dorow has
lived in Asia for over twenty years. In 2002 she received her Ph.D.
and is now an Assistant Professor of Sociology at the University
of Alberta.
Stephen Wunrow is a professional photographer in St. Paul,
Minnesota, and a proud father of three, two of whom were adopted
from Korea. His photographs were also featured in When You
Were Born in Korea. Steve is the co-founder and director of
Korean Quarterly.